Living With Scleroderma With a Smile

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Saturday, October 30, 2010

Happy Birthday to our grandson Jonny:) Four years old!!

Today we enjoyed a wonderful time with Kurt, Heidi, and family celebrating Jonny's fourth birthday!  I can't believe how fast he is growing!!! 

We all gathered in Wyoming at Grandpa and Grandma Scott's. Kurt, Heidi, Ron, and Carol had the garage all decorated for food and games:)
Jonny had such a good time...and was very thankful for his birthday surprises!
I was VERY impressed how his siblings patiently sat and watched as he opened his gifts! 

Times like these are very precious to our hearts...and we are so thankful to be able to share the joys of our children and grandchildren.






Friday, October 29, 2010

October 2010.....three years later

I'll never forget October 2007....the official diagnosis of my scleroderma, the last choir concert I would ever direct at CHS, the last day of teaching in the classroom.

Three years ago I was in Blairsville, Georgia at a health ministry retreat called "Times of Refreshing".  Even though the three week retreat was very beneficial to me in many ways....my scleroderma was advancing at a very fast rate....and to make a long story short...upon my return to Michigan I went under the watchful care of some really good scleroderma specialists...and a treatment program was started.


Three years later....October 2010...I am literally beating the odds.
Now we all know....that it's not the odds that I'm beating....but rather God's perfect plan unfolding.  HE is the one who has shaped my life, my path, and my skin.  HE is the one who hears the prayers and petitions of His children....HE is the one who gives me hope, courage, and who allows me to live. 

Everything I have experienced the last three years has shaped who I am today.  When I knew I was unable to return to my career as a music educator...something I had done for over 30 years...I thought I would crumble up and die:(   Now I look at this health challenge as an added blessing in my life.  My journey with scleroderma has opened up doors of ministry, advocacy, sharing my story with others, and most of all recognizing on a deeper level God's mercy and grace in my life.

October 2010 has brought sunshine and joy....
Dad is doing very well and adjusting to his new home at Green Acres.
He has made some good friends....and enjoys visits from family and friends.
He is going to church with us every Sunday, and had even invited one of his buddies, Roy, to come along too!  What a delight:)

Linda and I talk almost every day and have enjoyed special times with Dad. Andrea and Elliott have also come to Cadillac....we always enjoy their visits.

Dad sold his car this month, and on November 4th their household items will be auctioned off combined with two other estates in Onekama by Ringel Real Estate and Auction.  It was bittersweet as Ken and I, Linda and Don sorted through the belongings of our parents. There were some things that Dad wanted kept in the family.....but there are also LOTS of items that will be in the sale.  http://www.manistee.net/bldg%20auction%2011-4-10.htm

The house is also listed for sale......we continue to pray for the right buyer.

Ken is in  the middle of a bathroom remodel for Joel's bathroom.  I am grateful for a handyman husband who can plumb, wire, build, and figure out ANYTHING:)  He hopes to be done with it soon...then on to other projects.

We are going to see Kurt, Heidi and family on October 30th to celebrate Jonny's 4th birthday....also planning on taking a two day trip to Kenosha the first weekend in November.  We are also looking forward to the entire family getting together for Dad's 87th birthday this next month.  All of our kids and grand kids, as well as Linda and Don's family  will be able to celebrate with us.....Dad is pretty excited:)

Linda, Andrea, and Elliott visited Grandpa

Family:)

Picture from Green Acres Octoberfest

Don and Linda's grandson Elliott Hoagland
Mom has been in heaven for 4 months now.....we miss her so much...and I still can't get past the moments that I think I can just call her on the phone and chat...I'm sure that will be with me for a long time.  Just imagine the precious reunion when we are together for eternity!!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Grandson Isaac turned 7 years old:)

Friday we helped our grandson Isaac celebrate his seventh birthday!!!
This precious little boy born in 2003.....is now a first grader at Heritage Christian School...loves building things, playing outside, figuring things out, singing, riding his bike, and is full of joy:)

After school on Friday I picked Isaac up and took him to "Toy Town" in Cadillac. For the past three years we have taken Isaac to the store and let him pick out something he would enjoy and Toy Town in Cadillac has been the place to go!!!  http://toytowncadillac.com/  He was very excited about the visit...and after a short time...picked out a fun remote control car (water and land) and a couple of Lego things.  He was so appreciative and thanked us many times!

Later that evening we went to Jason and Emily's for cupcakes and ice cream.


Great Grandpa and Isaac



Legos from Daddy and Mommy

Madeline watching the action with Great Grandpa



Ooooo.....beware of cooties!!


Grandpa Kenny and Annabelle


Emily, Julie, Grandma Judy and Grandma Karen


What a special day!!!!
 Just before we ate the cupcakes, Emily read a special letter written to Isaac.
It was a moment I'll never forget~~~the love of two parents for each other~~~and the love they have for their children! This is a home filled with joy and laughter~~~totally devoted to Jesus Christ~~and centered around the teachings of God's word the Bible.  There is freedom to explore the world...yet discipline and boundaries when they are needed. 

Emily reading Isaac a letter for his seventh birthday


In my purse I carry a little card called "Children Live What they Learn".
I used it when I was a teacher.....and it is still applicable today.  Here are just a few lines from the original:

If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.

If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.

What a good reminder for us as parents and grandparents.
How are we doing in these categories?  Are we an encouragement to those precious children in our lives?  What kind of examples are we to those around us?  What words do they hear come from our mouths?~~~words about them~~~words about others.  Believe me....they are ALL ears and they do learn what they live.  May God direct our lives and paths in a pure and holy way.......May we be great examples of Christ's love for us and for others!!!